
Love is a choice. In arranged marriages, the woman doesn't choose the man they are to spend every day and night with. For the sake of sanity, the woman simply have to "choose" to get along with their appointed husbands and "choose" to like or except their faults, and "choose" to grow and prosper with this person.
It is a good life lesson that can be applied to many things we have to live with in life that we didn't plan for.